.A grown-up with a chaotic add-on design, often referred to as anxious-avoidant add-on type, has a hard time to count on individuals. Typically in partnerships, their actions is irregular and disorderly. Commonly, this accessory type cultivates when one's main caregiver is both a source of love as well as concern throughout their childhood years. In the adult years, Viviana found herself mimicing her mama's hot-and-cold behavior in her own enchanting partnerships. "I'll be really into a person as well as when they're really right into me, I'm like, 'Okay, you need to have to leave, please,'" she mentions. "The moment they go away, I feel like, 'Stand by, please come back. Passion me.' And then I'll carry out just about anything to keep their focus. I see it along with my mama, as well. I would like to be close to her. Yet when I got close to her, that is actually when the waistband would visit.".